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I recently discovered that I work really close to a Saks Fifth Ave. warehouse that opens it’s company store to the public on a regular basis. I stop in from time to time to look for hidden jewels that won’t cost the equivalent of my rent to add to my Fall wardrobe.

I was on a mission that first time I went to the Saks company store. I needed an evening dress for a wedding and my closet was lacking in the fancy dress department. I left there with an ombre Halston silk dress for $10.

My second trip I hit the jackpot! I walk in the door and right in front of me stands a rack of leather pants. (cue the heavenly music and sunbursts) The first pair that looked like my size was a pair of Helmut Lang zip front leather leggings. The second pair are  ankle length skinnies with a cute zip on the side. Both were a bargain at $99 and $69 dollars a pair. They are both missing a button but a quick Amazon search solved that issue for $6.95.

Styling classic leather pants is a easy thanks to Pinterest. I have started a page called Rock Chic Glam that is full of looks that will make wearing my treasures fun to wear. Dress them up or down leather pants will always be hot!

How are you updating your wardrobe for Fall?

images-3The East Coast has been hit with a number of heavy rainstorms this year and last week I got caught in a big one. I was soaked from head to toe. Thankfully, I was on my way home for the day so that soggy feeling had a foreseeable ending. I knew it was time to bite the bullet and buy a pair of red Hunter boots! I have danced around this purchase for years. I have been looking for a deal on them because I already have a pair of black and a pair of fuchsia Hunter boots but my heart was set on the eye-popping red version. Every time I wanted to buy a pair my size was unavailable or I didn’t want to pay full price. Well, my lucky break came in an email from Groupon. They had my boots! The size and color and they were discounted. I knew it was time and when they arrived all I could do was gaze at them. They are beautiful!

I love shopping in my closet! It is so much fun to pull outfits together from what I have and come up with new ways to wear items that I have had for years. I find that I do not shop as much and buying key items keeps my wardrobe fresh and wearable all year round. I want these boots to make a statement all year round and I am already planning the cutest looks for them. I love denim dresses and now I have the perfect rainy day compliment for them. Those plaid blankets scarves from last 6e6a89d7c783424df5510b4fed46eb9aseason?!…. red Hunter boots pick up the color and make a casual outfit pop! Grab your favorite leggings and sweater or those white skinny jeans from the summer….pair them with red Hunters add a denim jacket and you are set! Light snow on the ground….red Hunters with the comfy liners will keep your feet toasty! There are so many ideas that Hunter boots pay for themselves in all of the compliments you will get from your friends. There are so many ways to wear these boots that you will never be disappointed.

Let your personality shine with that pop of color that can take an outfit from drab to fab! Keep it simple, classy and fun! You can’t go wrong with red Hunter boots.

4_2048x2048My natural hair journey has been long but satisfying. I love trying new things but I stay away from any and everything lye-based. It has been 5+ years that started in Afghanistan. I spent a year working in Kabul, Afghanistan and the work was very meaningful but my hair suffered greatly. The water was hard and my lightened strands to a serious beating. So, I did what I always do and turned to the Internet and researched a solution. I came across and advert for The Damn Salon and instantly knew that I found my solution. I booked an appointment with the salon’s touring team that comes to Washington D.C every three months for a marathon hair session and found my happy place. The styles that I wore were wild and free and represented my personality perfectly. The styles that I wore were wild and free and represented my personality perfectly.

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I met the salon’s creator, Mushiya Tshikuka and we bonded instantly over the natural hair movement. I gave my hair health to Mushiya and The Damn Salon for two years and was rewarded with hair that was free of chemicals and growing like a weed. …..And that was 5 years ago and our friendship is as strong as ever! I have never met a woman that cares as much about women’s emotional health and how it is tied to our confidence. She wants every woman to look and feel good.  Mushiya went on to become a featured cast member of ‘Cutting it in the ATL’, a reality show that followed the business practices and lives of a few elite Black hair salon owners in Atlanta, Ga.

Mushiya has given me looks that give me life! Here are a few of my favorites!

 

So that is the ‘Damn’ back story! LOL! Mushiya has unleashed my inner hair diva and I haven’t looked back. When I have been Damn’d my confidence is through the roof. I am a bit shy normally but I do not have confidence issues. But, I get an extra boost when I leave the loving, creative atmosphere that The Damn Salon brings to every city they visit. We talk, laugh and boost each other up. Mushiya is an accomplished chef and we eat well….I am guilty of bringing the wine on a few occasions. We share success stories, wishes and fears. I even learned a few Congolese dance moves that I am going to bust out one day when I want to dance like no one is watching….I was with these ladies when I received news that I was accepted to grad school with a scholarship so it was with joy that I returned with the news that I’d graduated with my Master’s degree in Emerging Media Studies from Loyola University Maryland. We laugh, we cry and we love!

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Along with the love and sisterhood come the products….YASSSSSSSSS! I left with a shiny pink bag chock full of products that Mushiya has developed for natural hair and the people that love STUFF! b04677_ae699ec6b5188070e2edd4f28fa399d4When I came home from Afghanistan with damaged, bleached hair with balding spots that were down to the scalp in places I couldn’t see. It was these products that brought my hair back to its natural state. I massaged the shea butter-based hair butter into my thirsty scalp once a week and in a few short months my hair grew back in the balding spots. A few months after that I had a headful of healthy hair to deal with.

It has been a week since I got my hair done and I am still enamored with the Urban Twists that Mushiya chose for me along with the honey and platinum color that she knew would compliment my skin.

Damn! I am summer ready and off to my next adventure…stay tuned!

Most women have to adjust their hair products when the seasons change. I am no different! When the temperature rises I want to feel free. I let go of all things heavy. My morning beauty routine gets shorter and products get lighter. Natural curls and minimal makeup become the norm. I tackled summer make up early on and @MilkMakeup images-2quickly became my go-to. Milk Makeup allows my natural skin to shine through and takes minutes to apply with your fingers. Tap tap tap and off you go in all of your natural glory! Next…the hair! I wear my natural kinky, curls in the summer and it takes as much work as my winter hair. After a much needed haircut I knew I was in for a hair adventure. I had to find summer hair products that would allow me to co-wash, define my thirsty curls, springy coils and stubbornly unidentifiable nape all before I run out the door for work.

The first leg of my journey to me on trip back to the products I used when I first went natural over four years ago. The combinations just weren’t right and I was stuck with heavy, clumpy hair full of white hair product. I tried all of my old go-to products and none of them gave me the look I wanted. So, off to the blogs I went, I had to figure out what products would and the amounts I needed to use. Kinky Curly is a great product and can make a comeback as my runner up product. 81osU7w-iGL._SX522_Light gels and the leave-in conditioner gave my hair slip and made the detangling process easy. Nice product but I needed a product that would elongate and the curls in the crown and front of my hair….(different textures…who knew!) I also wanted a fresh, clean scent……then the lightbulb went off in my product addled brain.! Miss Jessie’s!

 

My Amazon order arrived today and off I went to do a test run. I am very satisfied and hope my hair is as happy as I am! First, I applied Super Sweetback Treatment deep, daily conditioning treatment that made my hair softer almost instantly….so far so good. Next, I applied a quarter-sized dollop of the Baby Buttercreme moisturizing leave-in creme to seal in the moisture. Finally, I styled my hair with Curly Meringue curling custard 51bGwgaFJTL._AC_UL246_SR190,246_using the shingling method check out the Curly Nikki website if you need to know more about different styling techniques for natural hair. After a few minutes of gently raking my fingers through my strands I was done. The final step was to give my hair a few good shakes to make sure my curls were defined. I gave my hair a few minutes to settle and went back for a closer look. Meh, my nape and sides are not taking to any of the normal products and will only be tamed by Eco-styler gel so I applied it to my shorter nape and sides. Eco Styler gel works without fail and will hold my hair in place with no problems.

These products work for all types of curly hair so give your hair a summer makeover!

 

 

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It is time for fun in the sun! Leave your over – coordinated city slicker duds at home. Lighten your load and your spirit by developing a capsule travel wardrobe with one or two signature pieces that can be adjusted to hang with your travel adventures! Here’s how you do it:

Make a List!

I call my list Summer Adventure 2017 and I start to organize from there. It looks like this….

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Clothing

  • Lightweight Maxi Dress – Use as a cover up for easy meals or movement around the resort
  • Cotton Tunic – Cover up and doubles as a travel outfit over leggings
  • Ribbed tanks and v-neck tees – love these for travel. Pair with shorts leggings capris or your favorite jeggings for nights out!
  • Thin Cardigan or Kimonos – for those cooler evenings or early morning hang out around the pool.
  • Lightweight Jacket – Don’t want to catch a cold hanging around airports! I will be wearing my Stitchfix military-inspired jacket that pairs with everything on this list.
  • Long Maxi Skirt – I found a great North Face maxi skirt that looks tres adorbs with my ribbed tank and Havaianas! I pick up a few new pairs at the start of the summer! As much as I love them I know flip flops take a beating
  • A Blanket Scarf – they were all the rage last winter so make sure you use yours to ward off airport chills, germs and general closeness of people that you don’t know. I spritz mine with lavender spray for serenity and calm. People are going nutso in airport these days and I want to remain serene and unflappable.
  • Linen Pants – any color will do. Pair them with V-neck tees and statement jewelry and your prettiest flip flops!
  • A pair or two of shorts – you never know!

And that is your Summer Adventure go-to wardrobe! All links provided….affordable and Prime eligible in most cases! I can’t wait to update my summer wardrobe at these prices!

On to Accessories….

  • Always pack a journal! You want to remember these moments! There are always quiet moments….take time to jot down your thoughts!
  • Beach bag – Everyone needs a chic carryall for their stuff!
  • Bathing Suits – I buy them in separates throughout the year to catch them at the very best prices!
  • Sarong – You don’t want to show the resort all of your goodies!
  • Cute clutch – for your lippy, I.D. and Benefit Dr. Feelgood, my complexion go-to! Don’t want to appear greasy do we?
  • Summer Hat – protect your face from the summer uv rays.
  • Cute Summer Sandals – Pack a pretty bejeweled pair to go with your dresses and sandals.
  • Sunglasses – I go full -on DIVA in my Coach sunglasses…there’s no use letting anyone see your full on party/relaxation mode!

So you want to know the secret to packing all of the gear in an airline approved carry-on bag! No worries I have the answer! Look and travel like a pro with your E-Bags packing cubes they are the answer to packing your adventure in your carry-on!

 

Stay tuned for Travel Make-Up Essentials! 

Happy Trails!

2931564-p-MULTIVIEWIt’s Spring! The sun is shining and the flowers are blooming! Put away the drab, heavy layers and inject color into It is time to add some color to my wardrobe! If you’ve read my earlier blog posts you know that I am a Frye fanatic so I checked them first. The soft, buttery worn in feel of a Frye bag is like nothing in the world but I have always been hesitant to take the plunge….until I stumbled across 6pm.com!The Frye Michelle Tech Clutch is roomy enough to hold the essentials and this color is everythang I am thinking jeans with crisp white blouses. (pssst…it’s on sale for $99) The chambray off the shoulder trend that shows the beautiful skin of your shoulders and pairs perfectly with white denim jeggings or shorts. I can’t wait for the hot weather so I can carry this perfect summer bag with my white chenille dress.

Zappos’ sister site is the recipient of all the Zappo goodness! I have scored great deals and the shipping is fast! Amazon.com has partnered with Zappo’s and 6pm.com so if you are a Prime member you get all of the benefits of the fastest shipping evah!

I have included links to all of the products listed so Amazon can hook you up! Have fun and be pretty…be colorful!

Until the next Musing my friends!

 

preheels-productSpring shoes are blooming in a riot of colors and styles and after a winter in closed toe booties and over-the-knee boots it is time to show off those pastel pedicures! After years spent in Army boots and a few foot surgeries I have a hard time wearing heels for any length of time so I started searching for a solution. The answer came to me when I was tagged in a advert for PREHEELS!

According to the website PreHeels was founded to finally put an end to the problem of blisters and irritation that our favorite heels and new shoes love to leave on our feet. Don’t abuse your feet PREHEELS works with all shoes so don’t be afraid to use this product with shoes that you are trying to break in. 

I bit the bullet and ordered a bottle right away. A 30% discount code was included in the advert and shipping was fast! I was surprised to have my bottle in less than two days! I started slow with an amazing pair of Coach wedge heels that are a little less than comfortable but absolutely adorable! My next attempt will be my favorite Frye shooties that are so cute but rub like the dickens. Check out the video!

How it works! 

Shake the can well before use, spray a layer on clean, dry skin and allow the barrier to dry fully before spraying a second layer or putting on your shoes

PreHeels is invisible and forms a dry, long-lasting coating that won’t rub off on your shoes like greasy balms or gels. 

What shoes will you try this product with? 

images-1Spring make up looks should be Fresh and Flirty! Keep your look natural and low maintenance but don’t skimp on the glamour. Weddings, Girl’s Nights and Happy Hours are all occasions that call for extra glamour. ZivaLash has set the bar high with a line of luxury lashes for every occasion and won’t put a major dent in your budget. 

I am all about a low maintenance beauty regime and my lash choice for Spring is the Gigi lash. The Gigi gives the eyes life…that oomph that makes every woman feel special as she walks out the door!  Yasssss hunty! Work those eyes and give the world SASS! Eyelashes have long been considered an indicator of beauty, so it is no surprise that ZivaLash has a style that is perfect for every occasion. 

 


Summer is around the corner and everyone is ready to shake the winter blues and prep for warm weather vacations. Although we are taking a break from our hectic lives, we still want to look amazing on a tropical beach or rustic outdoor trip. Lash extenkejalashes_1024x1024.pngsions can be a must-have accessory for vacations, since they require minimal maintenance, and allow you to go virtually “make-up free. Along with the Gigi Lash I am a big fan of the Keija Lash. Soft and sweet, the Keja Lash enhances your natural lashes with silky gathered lash clusters that add length and volume.

Visit http://www.zivalash.com to choose your Lash look! Free shipping, a blog and how-to videos make the ZivaLash experience a vital part of your journey to your best self. 

 

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Adulting is…Developing your Signature Style! Every woman needs to know what her IT factor is…that thing about her that garners compliments from everyone from the stranger in the elevator to the guy you have your eye on. It could be shiny hair, that budget-busting lipstick or that mesmerizing scent that drives the masses wild.

images-2A woman with a signature style exudes confidence. She knows exactly who she is and has embraced her inner goddess with efficiency and style. Do you know what that thing is about you? Women today are driven by style influences. We change our hair, make up and wardrobes that reflect the trends of the day. A woman with a signature scent oozes confidence. Your signature scent becomes a part of your identity and for most of us it doesn’t change. How do you choose that scent? The first step is to know what image you want to convey. How do you do that? Know your tastes. Are you drawn to natural scents? Vanilla, jasmine or musk based scents? When you know your favorite top note it is easier to experiment with scent. A few tips to help you in your sensory journey…… Find a scent that gives you confidence and makes you feel good.

images-1Your signature scent is your way of expressing yourself in a non-visual manner. Make finding a scent a part of your personal life journey. Experiment with different scents…ask your friends what they are wearing if you find it appealing. Preferences change over time and through the seasons and your scent should change as you move through life. A scent that you love in your twenties can become nauseating in your thirties or forties. Don’t worry….it was a moment in time. A time you can leave in your past. Summer scents that are perfect with your favorite tank tops, shorts and maxi dresses may not be enough to compete with autumn changes. And if you can Subscription boxes take all the hard work out of finding a signature scent. A Google search led me to a list of that will guide you and allow you to experiment for a monthly fee.

Subscription services have exploded in the last few years and provide everything from clothing, wine, food, beauty and hair products. Try a few scents and gift the rejects to your girlfriends! There are different options in the subscription box world here are a few that have had great success.

imgres-1What it is: Scentbird

Who it’s for: The curious woman who wants a fabulous scent for different occasions.

What do you do? Take a scent quiz and choose from a selection.

How much> $14.95 am month

 

What it is: Pinrose

Who it’s for: The artistic woman How it works: The Scent Profiler quiz uses synesthesia and asks questions about your perfume experience level, style, favorite colors and music to determine your three best bets from the brand’s line of 10 perfumes. You can order single-use scent wipes called Petal Packs, or a full-size vial.

The cost: $7 for a sample starter kit that includes a single-use satchet of each perfume; $20 for a Petal Pack of 25; $50 for 1 oz.

What it is: Olfactif

Who it’s for: The woman that sets the trends

How it works: At the beginning of each month, Olfactif sends you a curated collection of three niche fragrance samples (each one large enough to last for a month) along with an $18 credit toward a full-size fragrance of your choice. For the rest of the month, the site is updated with interviews with the perfumers and interesting backstories on the hard-to-find scents.

The cost: $18.00 per month with options

 

images-1What it is: Commodity

Who it’s for: The minimalist that believe less is more. How it works: Try a range of specialty fragrances through their Fitting Kit

The cost: $9 for a Fitting Kit, $108 for 100 ml bottle

Don’t limit yourself! Try the florals, the musks and all the others. Find the scent that lift your mood and makes you feel put together and ready to take on the world. Hint: My signature scent is Coco Mademoiselle and I have a secret smile for every compliment!

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Want your Instagram photos to pop! Be adventurous with your look. It is fun and easy to try new products. I love the way mink lashes look if applied properly. The key is to apply them properly no one wants to look like a cartoon character or the newest Internet meme! A Natural lash look can enhance your natural beauty. The ZivaLash collection features lush mink lashes that are light as a feather and easy to apply. Shave time off your beauty routine and a glamour to your look by following these easy steps.

DO 

  • Start with clean hands
  • The best time to apply mink lashes is following full makeup application, which will avoid eye shadow particles on the lash
  • Trim the lash to frame your lids
  • Apply DUO eyelash adhesive to the outer seam of the eyelash strip.  Allow the glue to dry for a minute before applying .  Do  not overdo it…a little goes a long way
  • Place the lash along your natural lash line
  • To remove mink lashes gently pinch on the end if they don’t loosen easily use a drop of makeup remover 

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Don’t

  • Don’t be cheap with eyelash adhesive. There are horror stories on the ‘Net of people using hair bonding glue to apply strip lashes
  • If you use the wrong adhesive you run the risk of losing your own lashes and eye damage
  • Wear your eyelashes overnight, you risk messing up the shape. 
  • Use an eyelash adhesive that is only for eyelashes

 Lashes are just as diverse as any other fashion, makeup or hair accessory. The ZivaLash Collection has an option that is perfect for practically every personality, style and occasion so don’t be afraid to try something new! Feeling a little extra flirty? Choose a longer lash. Want to be bold and dramatic, choose one with feathers! Lashes are the perfect way to express yourself and can be a creative conversation starter. Be sure to choose the right look for the right occasion, bat your lashes and get ready to be the beauty of the beholder.

 

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